The word "disciple" or any derivative such as discipling or descipleship have become quasi code words in my experience with the Church of Christ denomination for "liberal" or colloquially "off the deep end." Yet the fact remains that in order for us to be effective we must become strong, committed, disciples of Jesus Christ. Our mission always demands that we follow the discipline of Christ-likeness in everything that we do. It has been my observation throughout the years that we're much more comfortable being called MOTCs (members of the church) than we are with being called disciples. However, as I have deliberately worked to become a disciple rather than a MOTC, I have come to realize that my life has nothing to do with worshiping the church, but with worshiping Jesus. As I continue to pursue that path I have come to some realizations that have been very helpful for me in breaking out of my years of "cultural molding." First among these is that I came to the personal realization that I have to maintain a relationship with the Lord that makes me happy that Jesus is my friend and my brother rather than being an indentured servant to Him. The psalmist pointed out that Jesus is a friend that sticks closer than a brother. So Jesus must be my friend engendering a comfortable, happy relationship between the two of us. I know people who view Jesus as just a master or judge and they are invariably folks who are miserable with religion and service to Jesus and their brethren.
I contend that according to Paul in Phil 4:4-6 that becoming free of anxiety or the things which make us unhappy ushers in peace that is so profound we can't even understand it. Ultimate happiness! My walk with Jesus must be as a disciple, a follower, a friend. Jesus becomes someone with whom I am conversant, not in a formal, liturgical way, but in a manner I would approach in sharing my triumphs and problems with my closest friend.
Those disciples that actually walked with Jesus spent their time sharing meals, trips, discussions, studies, tears and joy. They were a close knit group and their success was contingent upon their having this type of relationship. Though they had some rough patches, they ultimately remained faithful friends who did, indeed, die for each other. If you want to be a great Christian you must first be a great disciple and as a great disciple You and Jesus will become inseparable friends and together able to accomplish anything you can imagine or things that are beyond your imagination. Thank you Lord for being my savior and thank you for being my friend.